2010: One Little Word

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My word for the year is: SUCCESS

When thinking about 'my word', I needed something that would keep me reliable. Focused. In Line. I would have loved to pick something fun, like 'create' or 'capture,' but those are things I already do. I need to focus on an area that needs work, that'll push me, that'll get me somewhere - to the place I envision myself to be.

SUCCESS.

Sure, I already am successful. I work (sub) with the school district I've always wanted to, I run a pretty successful photography business. Truly, I can say that I am quite successful at my young age of 23. But I want more.

I am not 100% "successful" in all the ways I WANT to be and NEED to be to reach all the goals I have for myself: buy a house in 2010, have a healthy bank account, work to pay off as much of my student loans as possible.

SUCCESS, SUCCESS, SUCCESS. This word fits so many areas of my life right now...which, of course, is why it's so fitting for 2010. Here are some of those areas that I will work to achieve more success:

1. TEACHING - I'm a recent college grad without a full-time job. I graduated 7 months ago and have been busting my butt to earn a full time teaching position with my dream district. So far, I student taught for 5 months here, I've subbed for the summer school program, I've worked in 3 different after-school programs with the district, I've held a 3-month long term substitute position in first grade, and now I will start day-to-day subbing for the remainder of the year as well as keep working with my current after school program. How will I truly feel successful here? By August of 2010, I want to have earned a full-time teaching position in this district. THAT would be SUCCESS - truly 100% in my book.

2. PHOTOGRAPHY - How would I define success in this area? Let's keep this one short and simple - books as many sessions/other type of photography work to make as much income as possible. This goes along with the above statement: buy a house in 2010, have a healthy bank account, work to pay off as much of my student loans as possible. Short and sweet.

3. HEALTH - Starting this week, I am getting a membership at the YMCA. Let's keep this short and simple again - success would be losing weight and just getting healthier. I don't have a set amount of weight I want to lose. Anything I can lose and keep off is good enough for me. :-)

4. MARRIAGE - I'm a newlywed. We've been married 163 day to be exact. I'm not going to lie. The transition hasn't been super easy. We've fought, we've bickered. The roles marriage automatically puts on people (with out us really realizing it) is taking a bit to adjust to! However, I got married to love, to be a best friend to someone, and to grow together. How would success in this area be defined? I think the answer to this is to just keep working together, pushing for the same goals, and (to be honest!) .... learn not to yell at him so much! :-)

As you can see, my main goal for success this year lies within my work. I hope to report back at the end of 2010 with these goals achieved!

Happy New Year, everyone!

Huge {2009} Post

First, since photos are the best, here is a little photo-recap of my (our) year:

January:

Georgio's last days in office ... sad!

February:

Me student teaching.

March:

Wedding countdowns had truly begun!

April:

Our birthdays month!

May:

College graduation! Yeah, baby!

My bridal shower and bachelorette party. These pictures are from the bach party:

June:

Our trip to the Silver Lake Sand Dunes in Michigan. Our first trip together. We went with Kate and Josh. Fox Barn wine ROCKS.

Jaelynn's 2nd Birthday Party:

New website:

July:

The biggest month of our life! SO much happened! What a great month!

Kenny Chesney concert at Summerfest on July 4:

4th ('5th' actually) at Chris' parents' house:

July 18th - I became Mrs. Filip:

July 20-28: Honeymoon to Playa del Carmen, Mexico:

August:

The only non-client wedding I went to this year (besides my own). It was FREEZING:

I got my new camera:

September:

We moved! This is our old apartment:

I started a new job as a long term sub for 3 months. This is the classroom I taught in:

I went to Boston to photograph Michele's sister's wedding:

October:

A cute little boy:

Fall fun:

November:

Our 1st Packer game together:

Finished my wedding season with a wonderful wedding in Sheboygan. Ashley came along for the ride!

December:

Ashley and I made a gingerbread Canon Mark II 5 D!

My love and me on Christmas Eve:

And now onto the questions!

2009 ---> 2010

1. What did you do in 2009 that you’d never done before?

Got married, graduated college, first real teaching job, booked myself solid for weddings for the next year

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I don't really make them. It's usually too much pressure to keep up with them, and then I don't succeed. So, for 2010, I'm not making any resolutions. However, I will be making a goal to start exercising regularly again and becoming more disciplined with what I eat.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Nobody close to me. But, I can't wait to answer this one next year! I know lots of people who are expecting!

4. Did anyone close to you die?
Thankfully no.

5. What countries and states did you visit?
Countries: Mexico, baby.

States: Illinois, Michigan, Indiana, Massachusetts

6. What would you like to have in 2010 that you lacked in 2009?
Relaxation.

7. What dates from 2009 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
July 18 - I became Mrs. Filip

September 28 - Starting date for my first teaching job

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Graduating college, Operating a pretty successful business, Becoming a "real" teacher

9. What was your biggest failure?
Not taking enough time to document our new life together.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Thankfully no.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Canon Mark II 5D

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

I'm not naming names. But this person is a crazy person, if that gives you a clue.

14. Where did most of your money go?

Business, Wedding, Honeymoon, Groceries!

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Getting married! :-)

16. What song will always remind you of 2009?
Black Eyed Peas, "Tonight's Gonna Be A Good Night"

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) happier or sadder? happier
b) thinner or fatter? fatter
c) richer or poorer? richer


18. What do you wish you’d done more of?
Vacationed

19. What do you wish you’d done less of?
Worrying, playing into drama, spending money

20. How did you spend Christmas?

At various family member's homes....and this year, for the first time, I hosted a little celebration at my house!

21. Did you fall in love in 2009?
I fell more in love with my husband.

22. What was your favorite TV program?

Property Virgins ... go Sandra Rinomato!

23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
No.

24. What was the best book you read?
Wow, I haven't had much time to read, well, adult books anyway. (I read a LOT of children's books at work!) I read the Twilight books at the beginning of 2009, so I'd say those. I need to read more!

25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Hmm...I like a lot of songs, but I never know who they are by. There was no "musical revelation" this year ... but I do continue to love my T. Swift!

26. What did you want and get?
A new camera.

27. What did you want and not get?
A house.

28. What was your favorite film of this year?
Some movies I watched and liked, although not all came out in 09 ... District 9, The Blind Side, Gran Torino

29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
I went for dinner with Chris, my mom, and grandma. I turned 23.

30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
Getting a permanent teaching position. Oh yeah baby, if it was one thing, that would have been IT! Hopefully, this will happen in 2010.

31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2000?
Argh. I need to improve this for 2010. Maybe I should start buying things from J. Crew, instead of just oooogling over their cute clothes.

32. What kept you sane?
Coffee and those tiny bits of blissful free time.

33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Sandra Rinomato and Taylor Swift, of course!

34. What political issue stirred you the most?
I'm done with politics after Georgio has left office and that clown was signed in. Boo!

35. Who did you miss?
Alanna who lives toooooo far away.

36. Who was the best new person you met?
Ashley!

37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2009.
Forget all the drama and just have fun.

38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.
Well, I just love these lyrics. So, I think if I love them, that's good enough!

"You showed me something that I couldn't see
Opened my eyes and you made me believe."

39. Will you be looking for a new job?

Well, not exactly a "new" job. I still want to teach. Right now I am substitute, and really want to find something permanent for next year. Also, I will continue to do photography.

40. Will you be looking for a new relationship?
No way!

41. New house?
Yes, please! This goes along with #39. When that happens, a house happens!

42. What will you do different in 2010?
More working out. Less stressing out.

43. Any trips planned?
I'm hoping we can do something fun for our 1 year anniversary. Also, I hope I don't have to pay as much into taxes as I am planning ... would love to go on a cruise with my husband instead of giving it to Obama's crazy ass followers.

44. Wedding plans?
Not this year, for me anyway. I'll be photographing lots of people's weddings, though.

45. What's on your calendar?
Weddings, weddings, weddings.

46. What can't you wait for?

Some type of vacay!

47. Do you plan on having a child?
Ask me that again at the end of 2010, 2011 will (hopefully, depending on the job and house situation) be the year for that!

48. Wish for 2010?

Continued happiness.

49. Where did you go on New Years?

Out to dinner, then to a townie bar, and then home.

50. Did you change at all this year?
I would say that I became more of a "professional" this year - with running my business, working with clients, and molding the minds of 22 little ones.

51. Did you dye your hair?
I got highlights twice.


52. Were you in school?
Of course, school is my life! I spent the first semester student teaching in 1st grade at Jefferson in Beaver Dam with Laurie, then graduated college, and then started subbing. I got a 3 month long term placement in 1st grade at Wilson in Beaver Dam. Lots of school!


53. Did you have a job?

I worked way too much! Lots of photography (weddings, engagements mostly) and then teaching. I know 2010 will be even busier ... I cannot imagine being any busier, but such is life. :-)

54. Did you move at all?
We moved from our apartment on Monroe St to our new apartment.

55. Did you go on any vacations?
Yes - Silver Lake Sand Dunes, Playa del Carmen, and a mini-work-related-vacay to Boston.


56. Did you break up with anyone?
Nope :-)


57. Did you drink Starbucks?

What kind of question is that!? Of COURSE! Hellooo Java Chips!


58. What are your plans for new years eve this year?
Not sure yet! I'm sure it will be mellow (bc that's how life has been lately).

Bring on a new decade!

With Warmth...

We wish you only the best during this Holiday Season!

Merry Christmas!

Love,

The Filips

*Snowman Soup*

My little project this morning for my 1st graders for their little Christmas gifts...Snowman Soup! It was a little putzy to design the tags, cut them out, bag up the marshmallows, assemble the baggies and tie with a ribbon, but it sure was fun! I hope they like!

Best part ... for 24 of them ... it only cost me $7!

Hope you had a wonderful weekend!

12 days til Christmas!

Snow Day

Hello, inches of snow!

Fortunately, for me, that equals one snow day off from school and a 2 hour delay the next day!

:-)

Happy Snow!

Scraps

on us

What are your middle names?
Marie and Allen.

How long have you been together?
Since July 2008.

How long did you know each other before you started dating?
We knew each other for three years before we started dating.

Who asked whom out?
Um ... neither, yet I was waiting for him to make the first move, and he did.

How old are each of you?
I'm 23, he's 26. Our birthdays are 8 days apart.

Whose siblings do you see the most?
Hmm... tough one. We only see my brother occasionally, and the same for his sister. I'd say it's pretty much a tie. But if I HAD to pick, I'd say he's seen my brother a few times more.

Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?

Honestly? Ex's.

Did you go to the same school?
Nope.

Are you from the same home town?
Nope.

Who is smarter?
Of course, I say me. But, we are smart at different things. Such as, there is no way he could teach 1st graders or photograph wedding, but there is also no way I could work with the transmission of a car or re-do a motosports bike or fix the computer.

Who is the most sensitive?
HA! Definitely ME.

Where do you eat out most as a couple?
We've hit up China Palace and Applebee's a lot.

Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Playa del Carmen, Mexico

Who has the craziest exes?
Ok, I seriously just busted out. Uhhhh, I'd 100%, definitely, with-out-a-freakin-doubt: HIM!

Who has the worst temper?
Me, me, me. I fully admit this. I'm working on it. :-)

Who does the cooking?
Argh, me.

Who is the neat-freak?
I LOVE things to be neat, but I really am bad at it. He used to kind of nag on be about it, but he knows not to now. :-) So ... I guess the answer is, neither of us.

Who is more stubborn?
Chris says me.

Who hogs the bed?
HIM!

Who wakes up earlier?
I do, because I have to shower, blow dry my hair, put on make up, figure out what to wear, pack my lunch ...

Where was your first date?
We never had dates. But the first "place" we went together was the county fair to see a band.

Who is more jealous?
Me. I get jealous that he doesn't have to work as much as I do.

How long did it take to get serious?
Well, we were engaged within 3 weeks, so I will get you figure that out for yourself. :-)

Who eats more?
Him.

Who does the laundry?
Me, me, me.

Who's better with the computer?
Depends. He doesn't know how to use the programs I do ... Photoshop, Publisher, other programs ... but if the computer is making me mad, he usually knows how to help me fix it.

Who drives when you are together?
I was kind of raised with the thought that the guy drives. So, I make him. We are probably safer that way anyway! :-)

Tres

THREE NAMES I GO BY
1. Kayla
2. Babe
3. Mrs. Filip

THREE JOBS I HAVE HAD IN MY LIFE
1. Deli Clerk
2. Teacher
3. Photographer

THREE PLACES I HAVE LIVED
1. BD, WI
2. Stevens Point, WI
3.

THREE TV SHOWS THAT I WATCH
1. Cake Boss
2. The Little Couple
3. Property Virgins

THREE PLACES I HAVE BEEN
1. Playa del Carmen, Mexico
2. Punta Cana, Dominican Republic
3. Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

THREE PLACES I WANT TO GO
1. Greece
2. New York City
3. The Grand Canyon

THREE OF MY FAVORITE FOODS
1. Pomegranates
2. Popcorn
3. Fajitas

THREE THINGS I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO
1. Paying off my student loans
2. Getting a full time teaching contract
3. Becoming a mommy

THREE THINGS I AM REALLY SCARED OF
1. The Dark
2. Deep Water
3. Being broke

THREE FAVORITE BOOKS
1. Any books by Meg Cabot
2. Junie B Jones books
3. Click Clack Moo ... Cows That Type

THREE FAVORITE BANDS/SINGERS
1. T. Swift
2. Lady Antebellum
3. Zac Brown Band

THREE FAVORITE DRINKS
1. Water with Limes
2. Diet Coke
3. Pomegranate Margaritas

THREE THINGS I COULDN'T LIVE WITHOUT
1. Camera
2. Days off
3. Internet

Yeah... I KNOW! A post!

Long time, no post!

Posting requires photos, that's why!

And I have barely taken any lately ... but today I did!

So here they are!

Our pumpkin carving goodness!

Hopefully more posts soon....